Legal separation is a remedy granted to an innocent spouse against a guilty spouse who has committed a serious marital offense (such as repeated physical violence, sexual infidelity, abandonment, or drug addiction), but the right to obtain it can be lost if the innocent spouse's own conduct bars the action. The Family Code sets out several grounds for denying a petition for legal separation, which function as defenses the guilty spouse (or the State) may raise. These bars are: condonation, where the aggrieved spouse has forgiven the offending spouse for the act complained of (forgiveness, express or implied, such as by resuming cohabitation with knowledge of the offense, bars the action for that offense); consent, where the aggrieved spouse consented to the commission of the offense (for example, agreeing to the infidelity); connivance, where the aggrieved spouse actively induced or contrived the commission of the offense by the other; mutual guilt or recrimination, where both spouses have given ground for legal separation (both being at fault, neither can obtain it against the other); collusion, where the spouses colluded to obtain the decree (agreeing to fabricate or not contest the ground, which the prosecutor investigates and which bars the decree); and prescription, where the action was not filed within five years from the occurrence of the cause. If any of these bars is present, the petition for legal separation is denied. The role of the State is significant: as in nullity and annulment cases, the prosecuting attorney or fiscal takes steps to prevent collusion and fabricated evidence. So the innocent spouse's forgiveness (condonation), consent, connivance, mutual guilt, collusion, or the lapse of five years can each bar a petition for legal separation, even where a ground otherwise exists.
The Right Can Be Lost
Legal separation is for an innocent spouse against a guilty one, but the right can be lost if the innocent spouse's own conduct bars the action.
The Bars (Defenses)
- Condonation — the aggrieved spouse forgave the offense (e.g., resumed cohabitation knowing of it);
- Consent or connivance in the offense;
- Mutual guilt (both at fault); and
- Collusion, or prescription (not filed within five years).
The Role of the State
If any bar is present, the petition is denied. The prosecutor/fiscal takes steps to prevent collusion and fabricated evidence, as in nullity and annulment cases.
Practical Takeaways
- The innocent spouse's forgiveness (condonation) or consent bars legal separation;
- Mutual guilt, connivance, collusion, or a lapse of 5 years also bar it;
- The State guards against collusion.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can forgiving my spouse stop me from getting legal separation? Yes. Condonation, the forgiveness by the aggrieved spouse of the offense, whether express or implied such as by resuming cohabitation with knowledge of the offense, bars the action for legal separation as to that offense.
What are the grounds for denying legal separation? Condonation, consent, connivance, mutual guilt or recrimination, collusion between the spouses, and prescription, that is, the action not being filed within five years from the occurrence of the cause.
What is the difference between condonation and consent? Condonation is forgiveness after the offense has been committed. Consent is agreement to the commission of the offense before or at the time it occurs. Both bar the action for legal separation.
How long do I have to file for legal separation? Within five years from the occurrence of the cause. Beyond that, the action prescribes and the petition may be denied on the ground of prescription.
This commentary is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For guidance specific to your situation, please consult a licensed attorney.
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